Confidence Tip #2 – Digital Presence + The Cigarette Man

Ever notice how video meetings show every stray hair?!  Yikes. We get it. And, video meetings aren’t just for the Jetsons anymore. Video meetings are here to stay.

But, here’s the good news: Never before have you had the opportunity for such personal one-on-one video interactions. Zoom, Meet, Teams – they bring you up front and personal to key stakeholders, your colleagues, your team.

Video meetings are essentially face-to-face meetings. You have the absolute presence of your key stakeholder! Treat it as such. How would you prepare for a face to face meeting? Do the same level of prep in your video meetings.

Here are 3 specific tips to expand your perceived confidence and digital presence during video meetings:

  1. Adjust the view of your head:
  • Monitor: Adjust your monitor so that the top of your head is aligned with the top of the computer screen. It’s worth the hassle. 2 crucial benefits:
  • This aligns your eyes with your camera – and naturally gives the impression that you are looking into your stakeholders eyes.
  • It makes you look BIG. Credible. Weighty (in a good way!).
  • Riser: If your camera is embedded in your laptop, use a riser to raise your laptop so that your eyes are at the same level as your video cam. Laundry hamper, cardboard box, we’ve seen it all, and they’re all great.

Digital meetings are not going away: take some time to get yourself set up for success.

2. Evaluate your lighting source:

    • Unless you want to match the riveting, mysterious persona of the Cigarette Man (and who here would not love this?) make sure your lighting source – such as a window – is not in back of you; if so, your face will be shadowed or obscured. All kidding aside, shadowing makes it hard for others to connect with you – and will make you look as if you lack confidence – as if you’re hiding (and you don’t want to come across as week, right?). Come up front; claim your space! OWN it. You’ll look more confident.
    • Similarly, if a light is above you, make sure it’s at least 4 feet above to avoid odd shadows and light patterns on your face

3. Before the call, do a dry run:

      • Make sure your video software is installed and up-to-date
      • Check your video appearance before the call begins
      • Turn off the volume on your phone and laptop notifications
      • Prepare warm rapport before you get down to business (we teach how)

Time to get your game on: the Jetsons await!

Dan + Sioux


p.s. You can get personalized feedback about how YOU come across. In a safe atmosphere, we’ll help you identify and clear away your insecurity ‘tells’ (we all have them). Then, you’ll practice simple tools to look – and truly feel – commanding and confident, despite fear or circumstance. It’s immensely empowering.  Huge ROI – many employers reimburse.

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